News

Outrageous response of swimming pool after mom reported hairy man in child’s bikini using female changing room

A swimming pool in Canada is doubling down on its decision to allow a man in a bikini to use a female changing room.

The incident happened on July 5 of this year at Commonwealth Place in Saanich, British Columbia, and has since sparked a storm of controversy.

Figures like JK Rowling and tennis legend Martina Navratilova have all weighed in, as local mom Angie Tyrrell revealed the response she received from staffers after complaining.

First, though, she told Reduxx how her daughter, who was 10 at the time, encountered the man in the changing room’s shower – describing him as muscular with a ‘hairy’ chest and back.

She further recalled how the unnamed person had been wearing a child’s bikini – complete with tiaras, sparkles, and frills akin to those of a Disney princess.

When Tyrrell told a staffer behind the front desk about what had happened, they brushed it off, she said.

Subsequent correspondence over the computer revealed how management did not see the instance as an issue, eventually earning Tyrrell’s wrath.

‘While the District of Saanich welcomes and celebrates diversity, and we encourage visitors to our Recreation Facilities to use the restroom or changeroom with which they identify and where they feel most safe,’ pool assistant manager Bree Dobler wrote to Tyrrell.

‘All patrons are expected to respect the privacy and identity of others and wear appropriate attire for swimming as outlined in our Code of Conduct.’

Dobler went on to insist Tyrrell had done the right thing in going to in-person staff first, while expressing regret over their lukewarm response.

‘You did the right thing by approaching staff with your concerns and it is unfortunate that they did not take your concerns seriously and call the onsite supervisor to gain better understanding of the situation and follow up accordingly, Dobler wrote.

‘I will be following up with our staffing teams in this regard.’

She then added how for Tyrrell’s ‘next visit’, she and her children could take advantage of one of the ‘universal or single stall washrooms or changerooms for patrons with concerns for their own modesty’.

This spurred a strongly worded response from Tyrrell, who told Reduxx that her daughter was left beside herself after the incident.

She reportedly wrote: ‘I don’t think it’s right that a man’s wish to “feel most safe’ in women’s only spaces should be deemed a higher priority than the legitimate physical and emotional need for women and girls to actually be safe.

‘You say if we are concerned that we should use the universal change room,’ she continued.

‘But why should all of the women – who the women’s change facility is for – have to leave to accommodate a man?’

The question elicited a response from Dobler – though not the one the mother had likely desired.

In it, she shot back: ‘[E]veryone’s gender identity and expressions are valid.

‘Everyone is welcome in our centers in the changeroom where they feel most safe.

‘Gender expression and identity is protected under BC’s Human Rights Code and we are proud to have a Diversity in Changerooms Policy in our centers.’

She then insisted how ‘there is no evidence to support that providing diversity in changerooms has increased incidents or safety of others,’ while adding ‘I understand that the topic of gender diversity in change rooms can be sensitive.’

She proceeded to remind Tyrrell how she had  ‘presented the option of the universal or single stall washrooms or changerooms.

‘Our goal is to create an inclusive environment where everyone feels respected and valued,’ Dobler then added.

‘I understand that this is a complex issue and appreciate the open dialogue and feedback. Thank you for your understanding and for helping us make our community more inclusive.’

A frustrated Tyrrell, in part, replied: ‘I see where you’re coming from now. You actually believe that the 6-foot-tall muscular man with the hairy chest and back who took a shower with my 10-year-old daughter was a woman because he was wearing a bikini.

‘That is magical/religious thinking,’ she concluded.

DailyMail.com has reached out to Facebook profile believed to belong to the mother for more information, as the incident has caught the attention of high-profile figures in the form of Rowling and Navratilova.

Both have long been openly critical of laws focusing on transgender rights, which they view as an affront to women.

The 59-year-old Harry Potter author, in turn, tweeted Sunday: ‘Quite something to watch people who were keen to hitch their wagons to #MeToo a few years ago defend this kind of thing, isn’t it?’ referring to how the mom had been seemingly told to be more ‘inclusive.’

‘Then: “male 𝑠e𝑥ual predation is far more widespread than society admits!” Rowling went on. ‘Now: “of course strange men should be able to shower with little girls.”‘

Navratilova, an 18-time Grand Slam champion from Prague who is 68, added: ‘As predicted!!! You can’t have it both ways, left wingers! You just can’t.

‘Protection of women and girls, should always come first,’ she went on. ‘End of [discussion].’

On the British Columbia province’s website, the Canadian government states:'[T]rans people must be recognized and treated as the gender they live in and prefer to express.

‘Businesses and public facilities that fail to accommodate trans-identified males may be subject to “discrimination” claims,’ it adds.

Related Posts

Fury as teen, 19, is sent to a young offenders’ institution for just TWO years over crash that left mother quadriplegic after he ploughed into her while filming himself at the wheel

The two-year term in a young offenders’ institution handed to a teen driver who left a single mother quadriplegic when he drove into her while filming at the wheel ‘in no way reflects the severity of his crime’, critics said today. George Taylor made two calls, sent text messages and recorded five videos showing him driving a Volkswagen Golf at speed and overtaking other vehicles while using his knees on his steering wheel when he crashed into Catherine Davies, 51. Ms Davies, who worked as a fitness instructor, is now quadriplegic and requires lifelong care in a specially adapted property fitted with life-support equipment. Her disability means she may never again be able to hug her son, 10.

Couple ‘are forced’ to sell their dream seaside home as part of local council drive to boost tourism

A couple claim they have been forced to sell their ‘dream’ seaside home because of a council’s bid to boost local tourism. Ann and Stephen Frew, aged 68 and 70, were diagnosed with cancer and Parkinson’s disease and bought the five-bedroom property in Great Yarmouth with the intention of moving in extended family as caretakers. But after spending £40,000 on renovations to make the home accessible to them, the pair’s ‘dream’ turned into a ‘living nightmare’ when they received an enforcement notice from the council – saying they didn’t have permission to use the building.

Danny Jones’ wife Georgia breaks down in tears in emotional video as she admits she’s finding life ‘stressful’ while the McFly star is in I’m A Celeb

Danny Jones’ wife Georgia broke down in tears in a very emotional Instagram video on Wednesday, admitting she’s finding it ‘stressful’ without the I’m A Celeb star around. Since the McFly star left for Australia over two weeks ago, Georgia has been holding the fort at home and looking after their six-year-old son Cooper. But Georgia, 37, admitted she felt a bit defeated after juggling solo parenting, her career and a house move all on her own recently.

Conor McGregor’s fiancée Dee Devlin launches furious online rant at his rape accuser and insists she ‘believes’ MMA star after he lost civil case

The fiancee of Conor McGregor stood by him as she leapt to his defence with a furious rant on social media against the woman who accused the mixed martial arts superstar of 𝑠e𝑥ual assault. McGregor lost the civil case as jurors at the High Court in Dublin found him liable of raping Nikita Hand, 35, in a Dublin hotel on December 9, 2018, with the judge awarding Hand €250,000 in damages. On Tuesday evening, four days after the court case concluded, McGregor’s partner Dee Devlin took to Instagram to deliver a blistering attack on Ms Hand – telling her ‘My sons will be warned women like you exist in the world’.

Mishal Husain to leave the BBC after 26 year career when she steps down from Today programme – and heads to Bloomberg in huge coup for the media company

Mishal Husain is to leave the BBC after a 26-year career as she today became the latest high-profile female journalist to depart the organisation. The presenter of Radio 4’s Today programme follows Martha Kearney in leaving the show this year after the Irish star stepped down in the summer. But while Kearney has carried on presenting elsewhere on the BBC, Husain has gone entirely, announcing she is heading to Bloomberg.

Carlsberg axes Bombardier, Banks’s Mild and nine other classic ales as Danish beer giant is accused of ‘wiping out British brewing heritage’

Carlsberg has been accused of ‘wiping out’ British brewing heritage after it axed 11 classic beers including Bombardier and Banks’s Mild. Drinkers will see a further reduction in choice as the Danish brewing giant withdraws eight cask ales and three kegged beers from pubs by the end of the year. Carlsberg Marston’s Brewing Company’s (CMBC) decision to delist the beers has sparked a backlash – after it had previously shut down Cumbria-based Jennings Brewery.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *